{"id":7823,"date":"2016-12-19T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2016-12-18T16:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"\/\/www.afterroberto.com\/?guid=612f5770b062af82e8ec567e165d9217"},"modified":"2018-08-21T15:40:40","modified_gmt":"2018-08-21T07:40:40","slug":"e%e4%bb%a3%e7%b2%be%e7%a5%9e%ef%bc%9a%e7%b6%b2%e7%b5%a1%e5%ae%9a%e7%95%b6%e9%9d%a2%e4%ba%a4%e6%b5%81%ef%bc%9fwhy-not-both%ef%bc%9f","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"\/\/www.afterroberto.com\/e%e4%bb%a3%e7%b2%be%e7%a5%9e%ef%bc%9a%e7%b6%b2%e7%b5%a1%e5%ae%9a%e7%95%b6%e9%9d%a2%e4%ba%a4%e6%b5%81%ef%bc%9fwhy-not-both%ef%bc%9f\/","title":{"rendered":"e\u4ee3\u7cbe\u795e\uff1a\u7db2\u7d61\u5b9a\u7576\u9762\u4ea4\u6d41\uff1fWhy not both\uff1f"},"content":{"rendered":"

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【明報專訊】人類文明發展，從文字發明到印刷術，到電話、手機的出現，以至現在的網絡即時通訊，我們一直不滿足於面對面的交流，嘗試和不同時空的人保持聯繫，背後的推動力是對群體的歸屬感。<\/p>\n

有統計顯示，現代人即使擁有很多即時通訊科技，清單有着過百個好友，亦只會恆常地和四五個人聊天。在Facebook上，每個用戶平均有120個好友，但定期有互動的對象亦只有四至六人。事實上，社交網絡的確讓人愈來愈容易找到屬於自己的圈子，發現與自己有相同思維的人，這為那些時常懷疑自己是小眾的一群帶來了另一種歸屬感，有人因而擔心這種現象會令小眾人士更趨封閉。<\/p>\n

全球化下 分離成常態<\/p>\n

然而，很多人都漸漸相信科技的出現反而導致人和整個社會變得更加疏離。有些社會學家指出，當人上網時間愈長，愈覺得自己脫離群體，愈是會變得孤獨，把矛頭直指日益興盛的網絡社交。可是這種看法卻忽略了一點﹕科技進步的同時，社會亦在不斷地改變。隨着全球化的發展，交通日趨便利，分離漸漸成為了生活的常態。人們願意花更多時間在工作上，愈來愈多人到外地工作，甚至選擇離鄉別井，移居異國，這些因素都不斷把人與人之間距離拉遠，不能完全歸咎網絡。<\/p>\n

不能否認，科技帶給我們無限方便，有時會令我們過分依賴，甚至「上癮」。當在意的人沒有給自己發短訊或是「已讀不回」，很多人都會不由自主地望穿秋水，感到失望和沮喪；「潛水玩失蹤」更廣被認定為一種「違背默認承諾」的行為；以至把對方「block」掉，更堪稱為朋友或情侶間之「極刑」。反過來看，其實這些都無可否認地顯示了科技對滿足人類歸屬感的重要。<\/p>\n

線上線下互補 便利人際交往<\/p>\n

然而，科技對人類社交關係亦非百利而無一害。對於一些欠缺自制的人，唾手可得的通訊渠道和資訊的確會令他們足不出戶，甚至淪為喪失現實溝通能力的「宅男宅女」。因此，無論科技怎樣發展，不同媒介的交往方式都不應被利用為取代面對面溝通，正如親身的擁抱絕對不是隨便一個握手或親吻emoji所能比擬。偏偏就是文字短訊先天的局限，欠缺了語氣和互動等非言語的社交信息，有時反而會刺激了對方的想像力，從而加深了溝通的印象。懂得好好利用科技帶來方便，且為生活增添情趣，網絡和現實面對面交往其實更是互補。<\/p>\n

文：精神科專科醫生傅子健<\/p>\n

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