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【明報專訊】當代年輕人之所以單身，多的是出於被動的選擇，這樣的被動往往來自讓人喘不過氣的經濟壓力和「追求卓越」的現實環境。當國家和社會需要經濟進步，企業需要更多的利潤和收入，個人在高失業率的壓力下，只有努力工作，努力提升自己，以爭取可以滿足個人需要的收入和「卓越」，至於家庭、父母、伴侶、孩子、房子，都變成遙不可及。當一個社會缺乏穩固的家庭支撐，這個社會還可以穩步的「追求卓越」來達到可持續的發展嗎？<\/p>\n

以政策保障成家權利<\/p>\n

隨現代工業和經濟發展，家庭結構和模式發生巨大變化，婚姻擇偶觀念被重新定義和思考，更為合理的兩性觀念趨於和諧。但是這些變化並不能否認家庭的功能，例如提供和滿足家庭成員的情感和愛的需要，提供物質生活需要和面對外界事物的保護力量，提供和塑造成就人際關係的能力，培養社會責任感等。「一人戶」打破了這些家庭功能，缺少了可以提供精神慰藉的保護力量，因而發展出各種精神緊張和壓力，這些心理上的困難也會進而影響企業和社會的良好運作，不利於社會的持續發展。<\/p>\n

亞洲乃至世界上各個國家都有採取各種政策措施來提升出生率，但新生兒數量並沒有明顯增加，低出生率和老齡化趨勢預計在未來的10到20年之內難以解決。在這樣的背景下，家庭為本的「追求卓越」需要的不僅僅是個人和企業的努力，社會和政策的制定也需要增加更多的考量。例如：<\/p>\n

‧社會由一味追求GDP經濟增長，轉變為對公民生活幸福感的追求；<\/p>\n

‧福利政策要對女性生育期遭到歧視和事業下滑的考慮、對新生兒的福利、對家庭經濟規劃的指引和保障；<\/p>\n

‧經濟政策要對房屋價格實行抑制和調控<\/p>\n

‧企業對員工個人生活時間的釋放<\/p>\n

‧社會環境對男女平權的支持和推動來解放男性結婚時必須購買房屋的壓力<\/p>\n

這些都可能在「追求卓越」的同時帶來對家庭的鼓勵和支持。這樣多管齊下，才有可能使單身人士在巨大的內在和外在壓力下得以喘息，可以有時間有精力去思考私人生活，帶來整個家庭的蓬勃生長。<\/p>\n

文：吳兆文（香港大學社會工作及社會行政學系副教授）<\/p>\n

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