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【明報專訊】過去四期談到香港老中青幼四種人生階段，可能遇上的性困擾，看到香港人的性困擾與性觀念扭曲有很大關係，也因為缺乏正規語言溝通有關性的困擾。<\/p>\n

性觀念扭曲 與污穢掛鈎<\/p>\n

性觀念的扭曲從小學已經形成，小學時期，「性」已經透過各類「粗口」，與性有關的字眼而被邊緣化、羞化、污穢化、不道德化。到了中學時期，青少年已經被社教化得意識到性是羞耻的、不規矩的事情；這樣一來，守規範的青少年力求守住規矩，不願意守規範的反叛型青少年則以「性」作為一個顯示獨立自我的反叛場景，對性可以顯得很放任自由，也不注意性安全，產生很多青少年的性問題。<\/p>\n

「性」的正面意義被忽略<\/p>\n

守規範的青少年長大成人結婚後，較容易傾向只為生兒育女或為了滿足伴侶需要而進行性互動，生兒育女、子女成長後，一些很守性規矩的女人們，容易缺乏性慾，男人則要面對常常被伴侶拒絕性互動，長者則更多面對被伴侶拒絕。整體來說，性在我們的正規教育中，鮮有被看成是全人教育、愛的教育一部分。我們的性教育整體方向是不全面，就像教導游泳一樣，本來游泳是很健康的活動，但如果我們只是說游泳會遇溺、會抽筋，雖然說出了事實，但卻不全面，也沒有說明游泳正面的意義和功能。<\/p>\n

建立以愛為基礎的性教育<\/p>\n

為了讓人們更正面地看待性，還「性」本色，應該多正面教導人們，當人和人相愛，如何可以恰當地、安全地、尊重地用身體互動，以表達愛情，滋潤生命，增加親密，甚至孕育出新生命！ <\/p>\n

筆者希望性教育不再是應對式的性教育，我們的性教育常常是補救式，哪個年齡出了什麼性問題，就做那個性教育課題。性教育應該是全人的，前瞻性的，以愛為基礎的性教育，並且應該是專科專教，教人如何愛自己、愛別人、愛伴侶，如何做父母、如何愛子女。真希望有一天學校能有性教育專科老師，為孩子們做好以愛為基礎的全人性教育、愛的教育、生命的教育！<\/p>\n

文：香港性教育研究及治療專業協會副會長吳海雅<\/p>\n

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