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【明報專訊】上月應澳門健康促進協會邀請，向澳門各界專業分享香港性教育的狀况。內地、台灣及澳門的嘉賓學者分別交流了對性教育的看法及在各地落實情况。聽了澳門和台灣的性教育推展狀况，甚感悵然。台灣和澳門皆有很全面的性教育理念，並且訓練了很多老師和家長，同時也有很全面的教材套。當然，我們的家計會也有很全面的教材套，香港家計會的資料和性教育推展經驗，也是澳門一直參考的機構。然而，從我們前線經驗看來，香港的性教育好像總是做得不夠好。<\/p>\n

港性教育欠師資培訓<\/p>\n

本年八月初在台灣開了亞洲性教育會議，事隔兩個月，又在澳門開兩岸四地青少年性與健康研討會。使我看到，我們香港的性教育改革做得太慢，太不全面了。家計會雖然有很好的材料，但學校沒有足夠的師資及時間加以推廣。這兩次在台灣及澳門的學習，使我們看到，推行性教育工作的專業人員，已經大力宣傳「性」不再是生物的「性」，而是全人的「性」，是與愛及為人有關的教育，可是家長、老師、校長並不全都能明白，故性健康教育推動者無法完全把一整套性教育向下一代推廣。<\/p>\n

那天台灣的教授說得有趣，他說有一個「520理論」，首先性教育不一定能在學校推出，一旦能推出，學生們可能有5天在學校跟着，但父母朋友們說的或做的又是另一套，那麼星期六日兩天不跟學校那一套，結果又歸零，所以叫「520」。<\/p>\n

我們這些性健康教育工作者在學校推正面全人性教育，但家裏社會傳媒繼續是負面看性的氛圍，下一代當然會無所適從，或者不會用正面那一套，因為父母社會周圍的人都仍持負面角度。光有良好的理念，沒有實踐落實的措施配合，一切皆徒然。<\/p>\n

澳門有不同政策措施支援<\/p>\n

研討會上，使我印象最深刻的是澳門教育暨青年局德育中心主任分享的課題「從政策及措施支援的角度談澳門性教育推行情况」，主任從學校性教育、學生輔導服務（與香港的朋輩輔導相似）、社區及家庭性教育三個方向，陳述澳門性教育推展的執行情况，和香港成了很大的對比，澳門政府花了很多經濟及人力資源全面推行性教育，至2015年已經有超過2000名教育工作者參與性教育培訓。反觀香港，筆者的協會數年前舉辦性教育工作者培訓班，只有十多名社工及一位老師參加。政府也沒有措施全面在學校推行教師性教育培訓工作。而有本港性教育研究文獻指出，香港性教育推行遇到最大困難是教師培訓不足、教師對性教育議題難於啟齒，又或指性教育理念與學校教育核心理念不甚相融等等。<\/p>\n

行文及此，想起曾遇上不少老中青男女個案，在扭曲性觀念下忍受了多年不必要的痛苦，心有戚戚然也。看到澳門台灣性教育的成功之處，也看到香港的緩慢，怎不叫人着急……<\/p>\n

我要繼續向各地專家學習，取來的經回港是否可以用得上？還看性教育政策的配合……<\/p>\n

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