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【明報專訊】編按：成家立室，生兒育女，對不少人而言是自然不過的事，但對於輕度智障人士來說，卻是遙不可及的夢想。<\/p>\n

在兩性感情上，他們來得慢，反應亦慢，但不代表他們不懂得去愛，有合適的支援，輕度智障人士一樣可以享受愛與被愛的感覺，像一般人一樣擁有幸福、快樂的婚姻生活。<\/p>\n

「我的目標是與男朋友一起努力儲錢，將來結婚。」阿雪分享她現階段的目標，說時臉上流露既甜蜜又期盼的神情。跟她背景相若的朋友，一些仍在靜候心儀對象的出現，一些則就應否拍拖與家人爭持不下，一些卻能開花結果！為了給阿雪打打氣，給她一點力量實踐目標，讓我分享以下三對夫婦的生活點滴。<\/p>\n

阿偉跟前度女友拍拖兩年，兩口子初期相處得簡單愉快，但後來感情漸淡，情侶關係不知不覺改變了。分手後阿偉遇上阿蓮，阿蓮性格不像前度女友般和順，事事與阿偉理論，但這些小爭執卻成為兩口子之間的情趣，兩人拍拖三年後結婚。可能經歷了兩段戀愛，阿偉在婚姻關係上，比阿蓮表現得較成熟，生活上的細節和平日家務，大多由阿偉打點。後來他們的兒子出世，阿蓮漸漸收起「公主病」的脾氣，縱使她的任性未必能短時間改變過來，但至少願意為了兒子，騰出時間上育嬰班和減少自己娛樂時間。看着兒子漸漸成長，在兒子四歲的時候，阿偉開始計劃再進修，「我想盡快完成高中課程，找份薪水較高的工作。現時做了爸爸，我感到責任大了，我想改善家人生活」。頓時發覺眼前的阿偉成長了不少，由早年吊兒郎當，未懂珍惜第一段感情的他，幾年以來的人生閱歷和婚姻生活，培養了他的責任感和承擔。<\/p>\n

合拍打理家務 滿室溫馨<\/p>\n

阿聰和阿芬結婚兩年，憶述他們當初相識時，兩人異口同聲說：「覺得對方很美，跟我很合襯。」說畢兩人不禁「嘻嘻」笑起來，好一個「情人眼裏出西施」的好例子。他倆性格樂天開朗，話不到兩句總會齊聲笑起來，旁人總感受到他倆是天生的一對。兩夫婦同是保安員，家住公共房屋，跟一般「無飯夫婦」沒兩樣，平日放工後只會到父母家吃飯。他倆自小受到父母周全照顧，成家立室後則要慢慢學習獨立生活，如今家頭細務以至家中大小維修，都要自己親力親為，初期雞手鴨腳在所難免，難得的是，他們總是笑哈哈地去「克服」這些小難關。當遇上真的處理不來的事務，他們便會使出殺手鐧，求助於父母。我們都明白人際關係其實是互相依靠的，阿聰、阿芬懂得找個人支援網絡來解決問題，證明他們的解難能力不錯呢！<\/p>\n

阿澄與丈夫阿傑在工作場所認識，然後拍拖結婚，婚後短短三年，阿澄由本來少不更事的「大小姐」，搖身一變成為一個持家有道的健婦。兩夫婦每天放工後，必拍拖到市場買菜，跟熟悉的檔主寒暄一番，當中少不免講講價、說說笑，然後趕回家準備晚餐。阿澄通常負責煮菜，阿傑則負責飯後清潔，大家合拍不過。阿澄認為，既然選擇與對方結婚，便是承諾一同努力建立屬於他們的家庭。在較年長的阿傑眼中，阿澄結婚以來成熟了不少，「以前她像個小女孩般依賴人，現在成熟、獨立多了」，阿傑說。聽到丈夫稱讚自己，阿澄甜思思地輕倚丈夫，好一幅幸福滿溢的畫面。<\/p>\n

憂心不懂自理 無力湊孫<\/p>\n

以上三對平凡的夫婦和阿雪，均是輕度智障人士。阿雪可以計劃結婚，而三對夫婦能享受婚姻生活，已教不少智障人士羨慕，因為在一般情况下，智障人士的愛情，早於萌芽階段已被制止，身邊的人大多不贊成他們拍拖、結婚。父母和家人或出於保護，擔心他們尚未能照顧自己，又如何照顧他人。至於生兒育女，家長則更為反對，憂心他們無力照顧孫兒，擔心擔子最終會落在自己身上，更憂慮當自己百年歸老的時候，由誰繼續來照顧智障夫婦及他們的下一代呢？<\/p>\n

在現時缺乏專為智障人士提供的性教育和婚姻生活支援服務的情况下，家長的處境和顧慮完全可以理解。但愛與被愛是人類與生俱來的需要，當智障人士遇上心儀的對象，跟一般人一樣，需要家人朋友的支持，需要學習如何跟對方相處，學習如何培養和維繫互相尊重、互相扶持的關係。到談婚論嫁之時，他們同樣需要婚前輔導、新婚生活適應和生育相關的支援服務。倘若本地智障人士相關的性教育和婚姻生活支援服務得到發展的話，相信家長心中的矛盾和無奈自然減少。此文的主角讓我們明白到，智障人士對待戀愛、婚姻絕不像一場遊戲般兒戲，若得到我們的支持，他們的夢可成真！<\/p>\n

文：香港中文大學社會工作學系助理教授黃敬歲<\/p>\n

圖：資料圖片<\/p>\n

編輯：王翠麗<\/p>\n

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