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【明報專訊】上周三，是太太生辰的大日子。這個晚上，我們沒有燭光晚餐，因為各自工作至八時半才回到家裏。我沒有預備什麼生日禮物，因為太太對珠寶、名牌手袋、化妝品通通都沒有興趣。就連生日蛋糕也沒有，因為她不喜歡甜品。生日，就跟平日一樣，平平淡淡地度過。<\/p>\n

一家人放下手機開飯<\/p>\n

一如以往，一家人於晚上八時半開飯。對我來說，晚飯是每天最寶貴的時光，因為一家人可以聚在一起、享受天倫之樂。我的家有一個規矩，就是不可以用「手機送飯」。我自問是一個不折不扣的「手機奴隸」，就連睡覺也機不離手，分分秒秒都與源源不絕的電郵或信息搏鬥。兩個女兒也經常沉醉於虛擬的網絡世界。幸運的是，一家人都覺得閒話家常比用手機上網更開心，所以每晚各人都很合作地放下手機才吃飯。<\/p>\n

一家人真的有這麼多話題嗎？當然，我不可能期望孩子明白自己的工作壓力和煩惱。同樣地，我也未必完全體會女兒為何因着一些芝麻綠豆的小事而悶悶不樂。原來我們都不知不覺活在自己的世界裏，人與人變得愈來愈疏離。緊握着手機的「低頭一族」，可能只是反映自我疏離的現象，而並不是手機的發明把人與人的距離拉遠，也許我們不應把所有責任都推卸到網絡世界。<\/p>\n

想享受閒話家常，就要先放下自己，跳進家人的世界裏。我喜愛跟小女兒談論漫畫One Punch Man的情節，為什麼那位所向無敵的英雄總是如此低調？我們也經常爭論，究竟是Iron Man好打還是Spiderman好打？結果我們共同擁有Iron Man Mark I，Mark II及Mark III的公仔！大女兒與我同樣喜愛音樂，不過她總是覺得Taylor Swift的Shake It Off好聽，但我卻鍾情寶島歌王青山的《淚的小雨》……普普通通一餐晚飯，其實也可以變得很豐富。<\/p>\n

沒有蛋糕 年糕、蘿蔔糕頂上<\/p>\n

晚飯後，鄰居好友忽然到訪，原來他們一心為我太太慶祝生日。可是生日蛋糕欠奉，我們唯有把過年剩下的馬蹄糕、蘿蔔糕和年糕一併拿出來頂替，成為另類生日蛋「糕」。大家開懷地談天說地，直至午夜才道別。出來社會工作的日子愈久，工作或應酬的伙伴便愈多。但當有一天「退下火線」之後，還會有多少「朋友」剩下？我眼見過一些以往身居要職的人士，退休後便「人去茶涼」、倍感空虛寂寞，難以適應平淡的日子。一位前輩說得好，不要因為工作繁重或位高權重而疏遠那些多年來對你真心的「豬朋狗友」，因為他們從來在乎的只是你而不是你的身分。<\/p>\n

快樂生日，其實可以不需要什麼名貴禮物，也不用別出心裁的節目。懂得珍惜眼前人，每一刻好好地相處，其實簡簡單單已極好。<\/p>\n

作者簡介：教學生、醫病人、做研究，中文大學醫學院院長陳家亮親筆分享杏林大小事<\/p>\n

文：陳家亮<\/p>\n

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