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【明報專訊】「靈性關懷」並不關乎宗教信仰,亦不如想像般抽象和遙不可及,以下的三項實用方法,可以讓大家實踐「靈性關懷」。<\/p>\n 1. 尊重接納,陪伴同行<\/p>\n 病患中的人身體面對各種辛苦情况,不但外觀受影響,心靈也變得脆弱敏感,故此尊重和接納至為重要,用心陪伴病人,跟隨他們的步伐。盡量不在態度、言語或處事上造成傷害,這是中國人常說的「己所不欲,勿施於人」,將心比心便是最好的關懷表達。<\/p>\n 2. 真誠關懷<\/p>\n 人與人之間的相處,貴乎真誠,真摯的關懷和相處容易令病人在心中產生共鳴,能促進彼此溝通了解。<\/p>\n 3. 聆聽和實務幫助<\/p>\n 耐心聆聽,不要有意無意打斷病人的分享,例如:「你不要這樣想」、「食多點,好快無事」。讓病人有機會表達自己,即使病人重重複複,甚至沉默不語,陪伴和聆聽也能使病人感到被愛護。實務幫助,例如送上暖湯,協助購買日用品也是暖心的協助。<\/p>\n 文:李瑞昌(靈實司務道寧養院註冊社工)<\/p>\n